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Bridal party question: HELP!!!!!!!!!

My fiance has three sisters. I am close to one of them.
i asked them all before we were engaged to be apart of my party as i had never really thought of getting married.
so my mom brought up that i don't HAVE to ask them all. I feel as though it's too late and i don't want bad blood. I would like to have my friends, but at the same time, I feel trapped. I don't mind them beingin my party. Sure I prefer my friends  but, still.
I don't think I should have to do a set up
i want my fiance to ask them would they have me or their friends. if they say their friends, then he could say ok, so when she asks you not to be, be understanding. but IDK.
The other problem is my mom. she's hounding me about asking them not to be and having friends instead saying "you'll regret it" over and over, and she's butt hurt about his nephew and sister being junior bridesmaid and groomsmen.
I'm so ffrustrated i am mentally heading north to vegas already.

ANY advice would be nice.
I am torn literally. I do want friends. Is it too late to ask them not to be?

I did ask one over the phone not to be via message, then said I don't know yes be one. and so I don't know if thats too late.


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